Thursday, 13 September 2012

Dua' to get a good husband/ wife


Allah (swt) knows every language, you can make dua in your own language after salaah. And it is better if you try  salaat tahajjud in the midnight. Pray as much as you can.
However, if you want to read a dua in Arabic, you can read this dua.
"Rabbi hablii min ladunka zaujan thoyyiban wa yakuuna shohiban liifiddini waddunya wal aakhiroh"
(Ya Rabbi, give me a best husband/wife from your side. A husband/wife who also be my best friend in 'Deen' matter, dunya (matter) and akhirah (matter)
Just talk to Allah like you are talking to your friend. You don't have to be formal with Him! Also, remember the following;

To ask Allah by His Names and Attributes
Allah Ta'ala says,
"And to Allah belongs the beautiful names, so invoke Him by them."
[7:180]
Buraidah reported that the Prophet (swalAllahu alayhi wasalam) heard a man saying, 'O Allah! I ask You, I bear witness that there is no God but You, the One, the As-Swamad (the One upon Whom all creatures depend). He begets not, nor was He begotten; and there is none like unto Him.'
The Prophet (swalAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, 'You have asked Allah by His Greatest Name. When one asks Him by this name, He gives, what one desires, and when supplicated by this name He answers.'

Presence of the heart in the du'a
Make the du'a from your heart (even if you are reading the words, i.e., mean what you say)
The whole point of du'a is that a person calls out with a sincere heart to his Creator. This sincerity cannot be achieved if one calls out heedlessly, without earnestness.
Abu Hurairah (radiAllahu anhu) narrated that the Prophet (swallallahu alayhi wasalam) said,
Make du'a to Allah in a state that you are certain that your du'a will be responded to, and know that Allah does not respond to a du'a that originates from a negligent, inattentive heart.
[at-Tirmidhi, al-Hakim]
Abdullah ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet (swallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "Hearts are like vessels, some more attentive and capacious than others. When you supplicate Allah you should be certain of being answered, and know that Allah does not answer a supplication that comes from a careless and inattentive heart."
[Ahmad]
~InnaAllah maaswaabirin~

1 comment:

  1. power prash
    Life becomes religious whenever we make it so: when some new light is seen,
    when some deeper appreciation is felt, To attract positive things in your life,
    start by giving off positive energy

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